“What’s the single-biggest mistake most individuals make in their negotiations?” a seminar participant once asked me. “And what can they do about it?” The biggest mistake? Most individuals negotiate instinctively, not strategically. Assume you’ve always wanted to own...
I recently decided to hire a publicist to help with the publicity for my first book. While my publisher assigned its own publicist, my agent recommended that I also hire a publicist to augment its efforts. Since almost every businessperson has undertaken negotiations...
“I left a fortune on the table because I went against my instincts in that negotiation,” a highly successful businessman and real estate developer told me recently. “Yet I know it’s critical to negotiate strategically and not just rely on your...
“I left a fortune on the table because I went against my instincts in that negotiation,” a highly successful businessman and real estate developer told me recently. “Yet I know it’s critical to negotiate strategically and not just rely on your...
You show up and you’re outnumbered three to one. In addition to its regional vice president, the other side includes a technical expert and an administrative assistant whose sole purpose is to take notes. What just happened? If you engage, you will be starting...
“What should we do when our clients ask for discounts on our fees? We believe our fees are reasonable, and our clients agreed to them at the beginning of our engagement. But we also value our future relationship and don’t want our clients to feel unappreciated or that...
“When will they get back with me?” he asked. “I sent my proposal three weeks ago and haven’t heard anything. (My counterpart) told me everyone was on board with the idea and they were anxious to start. Now nothing.” “What should I...
In the original hit CBS series “Survivor,” 16 participants started out on an island together and, one by one, they voted off their colleagues until only one remained. That “Survivor” won, taking home the $1 million prize. How did he win? His strategy largely revolved...
“I feel like I’m a pretty effective negotiator,” he said. “Of course, there’s always room to improve, but I’m fairly sure I’m not leaving much on the table. Unfortunately, I don’t have the same confidence in my team....
